LEADERSHIP DEVELOPMENT ASSOCIATION ALBANIA ORGANIZES FOR THE FIRST TIME IN ALBANIA THE EXCLUSIVE SOCIAL ACTIVITY “SPEED DATING”
Speed dating is a formalized matchmaking process of dating system whose purpose is to encourage people to meet a large number of new people.
The first speed-dating event took place at Peet’s Café in Beverly Hills in late 1998.
Men and women are rotated to meet each other over a series of short “dates” usually lasting from three to eight minutes depending on the organization running the event. At the end of each interval, the organizer rings a bell, clinks a glass, or blows a whistle to signal the participants to move on to the next date. At the end of the event participants submit to the organizers a list of who they would like to provide their contact information to. If there is a match, contact information is forwarded to both parties.
Contact information cannot be traded during the initial meeting, in order to reduce pressure to accept or reject a suitor to his or her face.
Participants can come alone without feeling out of place; alternatively it is something that women who like to go out in groups can do together.
Because the matching itself happens after the event, people do not feel pressured to select or reject each other in person. On the other hand, feedback and gratification are delayed as participants must wait a day or two for their results to come in.
The time limit ensures that a participant will not be stuck with a boorish match for very long, and prevents participants from monopolizing one another’s time. On the other hand, a couple that decides they are incompatible early on will have to sit together for the duration of the round.
According to the New York Times, participants in speed dating experience an average of 2 in 10 or 3 in 10 matches.
Online dating participants, in contrast, only find a compatible match with 1 in 100 or fewer of the profiles they study.
As reported by the BBC in the Science of Love, it only takes between 90 seconds to 4 minutes of face-to-face interaction to determine attraction, which gives speed dating an advantage over online dating.